When you fell in love with your partner, relating was easy, but how does that translate months or years down the line while handling the ins and outs of daily life?

Make time and space to reinvest in your partnership  by creating a practice that will awaken the passion you have for one another, reintroduce you to the person you fell in love with and give you tools to continue to deepen in life & lovemaking with your partner.

I've created this immersive experience because there is certain work that I only share with couples through private coaching OR my 'Rediscovering Love' home study course. Recently, I have gotten LOTS of requests from couples who want these specific practices. They want to experience them away from home and the pulls of daily life and they don't think they would learn best by starting with a home-study course. 

Working privately with me for an immersive experience and even attending an all-inclusive retreat together as a couple runs from $3,500-$6,500. I know not every couple can budget for that.

So, I'm very excited to announce an immersive small-group experience which includes both 1 on 1 time with me to address the specific interests and challenges as a couple as well as an opportunity to experience these most powerful practices for couples while you retreat in the woods of Northern California!

Rediscovering Love Intensive Immersion

Limited to 6 Couples, Grass Valley, CA

There are 2 POSSIBLE DATES!!

Nov 3/4 OR Nov 10/11 


1 on 1 Sessions with just you and your partner as preparation and follow up!

Immersive Retreat is perfect for couples who:

Caught in a loop of fighting...

Caught in a loop of fighting...

Seem to want different things in the bedroom...


Love your partner and are excited to go deeper.

Are at a crossroads in your relationship. Something has to shift.

Everyone longs to feel closer to the one we love.


The problem is that in our society we have no tools and no successful models of how to keep a partnership nourished and alive over time.

In fact, we are in a culture that encourages us to focus primarily on work and accumulating ‘stuff’… so much so that a meeting which will bring financial gain is often prioritized over special time with our lover, 40+ hours a week are devoted to work and maybe a few hours are devoted to our partner…. usually squeezed into a ‘date night’ and some sex when we are already exhausted (if we are lucky enough to get to it before we crash for the night).

There is good news!

It is easy to have a consistently rich and delicious, sensual relationship...

All you need are the tools!

No one has taught them to us because most people (including our families) have not been exposed to these simple practices.

Treat yourself and your relationship to a course that will not only nourish you, but will also give you tools and practices that will transform how you relate to one another & how you make love.

We need to shift our perspective on relating from:

'relationship is supposed to make us happy'


'relationship is our greatest teacher'.

Once we have made that shift, we stop comparing our relationship and our partner to what we have seen in the movies and fairy tales & we can begin to unlock some of the dynamics between us that are keeping the love from flowing.

I feel like we are in a powerful time of change that is rocking many partnerships.

“When my Husband surprised me for our Anniversary [10 years] with coaching from Charu, that was just the beginning of many magical moments. What we learned with Charu deepened the love we share for each other.
After 18 years of being together we didn’t realize how de-sensitized a couple can become. Charu’s inviting personality, and knowledge of Tantra made us feel safe and so comfortable we were able to reconnect on the deepest levels. She made each and every practice fun and exciting! I recommend Charu and Tantra to every couple wishing to take their relationship to the next level.”
~Nina Waldman

A very special weekend + 1 on 1 coaching for deeper connection and transformed lovemaking.


An Immersive Experience to Take You and Your Partner to the Next Level.

In this immersion I will be walking you through the same process and practices that I have shared with hundreds of private clients to rediscover their love and connection.

Here is what you can expect:

  • Get out of your head!!

    • Learn simple practices to re-sensitize your bodies so you can experience more pleasure.
    • Tantric lovemaking practice

      • This practice will change the way you experience sex whether you are experiencing challenges in this area or you are simply craving a next-level.
    • Get out of your own way

      • It doesn’t matter who is right. Learn to get past the conflict and remember the love you truly feel for one another.
    • Tantric Massage

      • Awaken sexual energy and build sensual connection.
    • Effective Listening & Communication

      • This, in combination with releasing tension in the body through the tantric practice, can help you to get through those nagging conflicts and avoid them in the future.
    • Awakening Sexual Energy

      • So much of the time there is an imbalance or a numbing that has happened with one partner sexually. Practices in this course help us to find a new fire of our sexuality.
    • Vulnerability

      • Truly great lovemaking is rooted in going to a deeper place with our partner. One where we feel safe to share our vulnerability. This is the greatest tool for orgasm and our personal awakening.
    • Multiple ideas for Hassle-free, Sensual date-nights

      • This not only makes planning easier for quality time, but these dates will also enrich and enhance your connection and sexual attraction for one another.
    “My husband has learned to listen to my body in new ways.”

    L. and I had been together for so long, we started very young and now both of the kids are in college, over time we had drifted apart. Our partnership was so rich in so many ways, and I LOVED having him as my partner, but we were just not connected sexually. For a while I thought I just didn’t have any desire anymore… until I met someone else and had an affair (I’m not proud of this, but it’s the truth of my story). Before starting the work with Charu, I had ended the affair and I knew I wanted to choose my husband, but I also knew that I was no longer willing to feel sexually numb. I wanted passion and I wanted it with the man I love.

    After just one session with Charu we were able to connect in a way that we hadn’t in years. She promised us that she would help our love express through our intimacy and sexual connection and that it could be even more powerful and deeper than what I had with my lover. She was right. Without being too graphic, I didn’t know my body could open in that way. It was both tender and passionate. My husband has learned to listen to my body in new ways. Most importantly, we are both feeling connected and sexually alive again. ~ K.B.

    Immersive Retreat

      EITHER: Nov 3/4 OR Nov 11/12

    *When you check-out you will be asked if you are available for BOTH dates OR one or the other. Please choose BOTH if you can make either date so we can choose the date that works for the most participants!

    (limited to 6 couples)

    Grass Valley, CA (Just a little over 1 hour outside of Sacramento)


    *Each Couple will also Receive 2 Private Virtual Coaching Sessions for Special Support with your individual journey!*

    “Finally, a chance to explore Tantric Lovemaking! This is so different than anything we have done before. Sex is now a way for us to deeply connect vs. just a way to release. The sexual connection is actually helping us navigate day-to-day challenges with more ease!” ~ Monica


    Our Exploration During the Retreat + Your Private Sessions...

    Opening & Connecting


    We will be doing a simple practice that uses breath, movement and sound to awaken your own body to more sensitivity and vulnerability. As your body softens and becomes more receptive, your partner will be there to support you in new ways. The practice is so simple that anyone can do it, the results are so profound that this practice alone may open doors in your relationship that have not been opened for literally years.


    Our sexual connection is like nothing either of us have ever experienced before.

    We started our Tantra journey at the beginning of our partnership. We had both made choices in the past around sex that were less than nurturing to ourselves and maybe our partners too… we knew we wanted to do it differently with each other.

    Enter Charu. She gifted us with a completely new language. An inner language so we could connect to ourselves and listen to our own bodies and that changed how we related to each other. I am completely convinced that the foundation of this relationship has been built with power, clarity, and intimacy that would not have been possible without these practices.

    Our sexual connection is like nothing either of us have ever experienced before. Is it too cheesy to say I feel like I was blind and now I can see? It’s exciting and rich. We are excited to dive into anything that Charu creates! ~ M.R.

    A Lovemaking Technique that will Change Everything

    Learn a sacred lovemaking practice that is so radically different than anything you have experienced it will change the way you make love forever.

    This technique also has the power to support you through issues that may be coming up in your partnership such as:

    • couples who feel your lovemaking styles are ‘incompatible’

    • men who find that the penis is soft at times when you wish it was hard

    • couples who have not made love in a long time and no longer know how to approach it

    • women who are feeling ‘shut down’ and unsure how to feel ‘ready’ or aroused at the moment

    • men who ejaculate before you would like to

    • couples who have been having sex one way and are simply ready to go deeper than they have ever imagined

    • men feeling like you don’t last long-enough

    This is a technique that I have used myself with much delight and awakening and one that I have seen transform couples lives. I’ve seen couples who had not made love in literally years begin to make love daily, couples who have had ‘style’ differences suddenly discover lovemaking that honors both of their desires... it’s radical. And so very simple.

    Re-Sensitize & Surrender for Deeper Connection.

    I always find myself saying that great lovemaking is not about ‘press this’ and ‘push that’ ‘fiddle this in this way and he/she will go wild’... techniques like this have a very real limitation. It is possible to ‘successfully’ execute a technique and be completely disconnected and unconscious.

    Great lovemaking comes from sensitivity and vulnerability. When we are sensitive and vulnerable we are deeply connected to ourselves and when we are deeply connected to ourselves we are available to truly connect to our lover. From this kind of connection openings and awakenings can happen in lovemaking that are beyond what we have imagined possible.

    This practice is also one that holds the key to learning to experience full-body orgasm... ;)

    ...We found our session with Charu was the perfect thing for us.

    ”My husband and I have been together for a LONG TIME... We wanted to reconnect and we found our session with Charu to be the perfect thing for us. It was such a sweet new way to connect and I can see how what we learned will continue to help us new ways.” ~ Pamela

    Massage to Open Arousal

    This massage is not only relaxing, but it also increases circulation of blood and the flow of energy through the groin, pelvis and legs. Opening these channels in the body in this gentle and nurturing way can be a powerful way to ignite passion and arousal.


    Conscious Communication & Igniting Power of Sexuality

    First, we will look at how to consciously communicate with our partner when issues and challenges arise within your partnership. It's simple and a wonderful tool to have in difficult moments!

    Then, we will move on to a practice that will ignite and awaken the power that is held in your sexual energy. Like in the other weeks, we will be entering into this from a different angle then we have been used to exploring our sexuality. Opening a new doorway for arousal and movement of the sexual energy between you and your partner.

    This practice is also something that can be brought into lovemaking for more pleasure, sensation and can even be used in support of elongating the amount of time you are able to stay connected allowing more space for orgasm to blossom for both of you.

    Magic in the Woods


    Just getting away from your hectic life is SO GOOD for your relationship! Beyond that, nature gives us something special. It invites our system to unwind so we can FEEL again. This sensitivity extends to how we relate to our partner and how we experience lovemaking. 


    The Nevada City/ Grass Valley area of Northern California is known for its charming Gold-Rush towns, incredible hiking, creative cuisine, majestic Yuba River and more trees than people!

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    Extra goodies make this process even better? What?


    Yup. I'm giving you more! I'm good like that.

    “I always knew that there could be something more to sex, but had no idea how to achieve that. The ‘Rediscovering Love’ course has given us a roadmap to discover one another in a totally knew way. Feels like something our bodies already knew, but we would never have known where to start.” ~ Jeff


    Creating 'Sacred Space' Audio Class:


    It is so important when you are about to re-invest in your partnership in a new way to learn how to create 'space' for this transformation in your home. Learn everything from how to transform the physical space you are in as well as create 'space' in your body for the love you are about to give and receive.

    Men: Why She Won't Open Her Heart or Her Legs to You Audio Class: 

    This is a provocative talk that myself and Martin did together to speak to some of the very real challenges Men experience with women and to unveil some of the mystery behind why you may be finding she is not opening up to you.

    Better Sex, Deeper Connection through an Immersive Experience.


    1 on 1 Sessions with Charu

    • 1 hour-long private session via video conference. 1-2 weeks before we meet for our immersion you and your partner will have a private coaching session with Charu. During this session Charu will get to know your individual needs as a couple, give you some practices to get started with and support you in getting the most out of your immersion experience.

    • 1 hour-long private session 1-2 weeks after our immersion via video conference. During this session Charu will check in with you to see how your practices are going and help to make sure you are integrating what you have learned.


    • Immersion: We will meet at a location in Grass Valley, Northern California for 2 consecutive half-days. 10am-3pm (including a lunch-break to eat at a local restaurant).

    • Sensual home-play assignments to do on Saturday night when you return to your airbnb.

    • Detailed Assignments/Structure for creating a home-practice long after the retreat is over.

    • Special recommendations for romantic hikes and restaurants in the area.

    *Please note: you are responsible for your own transportation, food and lodging in the area. We will provide a list of favorite airbnbs.


    • Creating Sacred Space Audio Class simple things to make your room feel sensual and ready for new explorations.

    • Men: 'Why She won't open her legs to you.' Audio Class. Get important insights that could change how you relate to one another.

    Summary of What's Included:

    • Private 1 hour Pre-Session: Via Video Conference (Zoom). Just you and your partner will meet with me 1 on 1 approximately 1-2 weeks before we meet for our immersion.

    • Immersion: We will meet at a location in Grass Valley, Northern California for 2 consecutive half-days. 10am-3pm (including a lunch-break to eat at a local restaurant).

    • Sensual Home-Play Assignments before, after and during the immersion.

    • Private 1 hour Follow-up Session: Via Video Conference (Zoom). Just you and your partner will meet with me 1 on 1 approximately 1-2 weeks after we meet for the immersion.

    *Please note: Food, lodging and transportation are not included. 

    The nearest airports to Grass Valley, CA are Sacramento, CA or Reno, NV.

    Driving from the LA area can take between 6.5-7 hours.

    Join us!

    I have worked very hard to create a course that will truly meet the needs of couples who want an immersive experience to transform their relationship or simply to go deeper with one another.

    As I mentioned before, until now, the only way to have this kind of hand-holding and support from me would be to work with me privately for $3,500 or attend a retreat together for $5,000-$6,500!

    I understand that not everyone can make that kind of investment ~ so I created this course to give you the VALUE of 1-on-1 work AS WELL AS an immersive experience in a small group at a price point that is considerably less. :)

    This immersion is being offered for $2,500 per couple. And space is limited to 6 couples total.

    *Early Bird Rate $1,850*

    Early Bird Available through Monday, Sept 25th

    *I'm even offering a 3-pay option for those who need it!

    (Please note, there is a finance fee for those using the payment plan option).

    Price is per-couple and does not include food, lodging or transport.

    3-pay option available at checkout!

    “What a difference this work makes. Truly. My partner is now having intense full-body orgasms, my vagina has never felt so soft and open, we had our most extended lovemaking ever the other day, he’s touching me in new ways that feel soooo good... and these things are just the icing. We are connected in a totally new way. I am in awe.” ~ Melinda